Cheating on spouses or on a girlfriend is a scenario that is more often talked about. This occurrence bring about situations that cause pain to the second party and in other circumstances, it gets so bad that relationships end. Why men cheat in relationships can be an endless discussion. There are a number of reasons why men cheat. For some of these reasons, women have the capability of turning things around and even prevent the occurrence.
Reasons are as follows :
1. Peer pressure
Peer pressure is one of the major reasons why men cheat in a relationship. This is evident that it also affects married men. Men end up cheating as a result of being pushed into it by friends or the people they hang around. Picture this, if your man or husband hangs around men who cheat the likelihood that the friends will setup a blind date and convince him that it is okay to cheat is very high. This will cause a man to cheat just to fit into the group or simply prove a point that they are their own men.
Do all men cheat?
While peer pressure can be influencing, women tend to play a major role in the possibility of their men falling into this trap. While women cannot dictate who their men hang around with, they can make their men feel secure about what they have. Remind them that what they have is a complete package and they do not need to look elsewhere.
In this, women should not stop pampering their men simply because they feel they are too busy. You claim you are too busy, well; there is someone out there who has the time to pamper your man. Secondly, you can also try and incorporate some other friends in the circle that have a different opinion. Peer pressure only has positive results if the opposing side provides full support but if there are more people opposing the act, the impact is not as bad.
2. To fulfill some fantasies
It is not in every affair that a man will have that the aim is to run from his relationship. In many circumstances, the idea is to explore something they think they cannot get from their girlfriend or from their wives. The whole idea may not be based on a truth but on the day-to-day occurrences in the relationship. Men may be trying to experiment some sex move or position they found in the internet. With the feat that it may raise suspicion in his relationship, he may decide to get someone different to make this fantasy come true.
This is a situation that can be put under control if women would start being open-minded in their relationships. It is okay to try new things in the relationship without making your man feel like he is asking for too much. Just as women have fantasies they would love to be fulfilled, men have some fantasies of their own.
They may sound like crazy ideas to you but you may find out that they are functional. Plus, if they do not work out, your man will know that he fulfilled it anyway and will get his mind off the same idea. Exploring also goes a long way into ensuring your relationship retains its original spark in the long term.
3. The thrill of the chase
Men are characterized as hunters and there is the excitement that makes them feel wanted and younger when they go out and chase after women. The idea may not be directly an intention to cheat but it keeps them thinking that they are in control.
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