You must have dated him for days, months or probably even years; you know what he is thinking, what he is going to say in a particular situation and everything. But somehow, you’ve decided to mutually part ways because you both think it’s not working out anymore. But, the biggest problem starts when he drops in a question, “Can we still be friends?”
You are clueless and wonder FRIENDS? Huh! You just can’t lay your finger on what type of a relationship that would be. You are gob smacked and for whatever reason, you just don’t want to be just friends.
- First things first, you want to be more than friends and nothing less!
Being just friends with a person you’ve had a relationship will be totally unbearable for you. You’ve spent so much time with that person that you just cannot even think of being “Just Friends”. Even the thought of it will make you feel nauseous.
2. If he’ll be in your sight forever, how will you ever get over him?
Being friends means you’ll be meeting him in social circles and then putting up a fake smile on your face and asking him how he’s been when you simply want to just hug him and tell him how much you missed him. There is no way in hell you’ll even succeed in getting over him, not even 20%.
3.You can’t stand the thought of him being with someone else.
The very thought of him being with someone else just pisses you off! Being friends with him will only invite more heartbreak and trouble for you.
4. You might fall in love with him over and over again.
You started a relationship with him and then it transformed into love and now going back to just being friends is something absolutely not possible. Being in the same group and being surrounded by him is definitely not going to help the situation either. Hanging out with him will only bring all those feelings back.