A Letter To The Women Who Believe All Men Are The Same

Dear women who believe that all men are the same,

I guess it’s time to clear some misconceptions today.I believe you have not yet met enough decent men to think that all men are the same. My dear, they are not. You just haven’t met the right ones. You mostly see your world with a view of black and white and, often, fail to see the shades of grey, and by that I definitely do not mean the Fifty Shades of Grey movie. In fact, your lives are not just black and white or shades of grey. There’s some red, blue, green, yellow and all possible colors you could think of there as well. The same holds true for people as well, who are as varied as the colors we see.


Perhaps because of one or two bad experiences with some men you’ve started believing that all men are the same. One of the major problems with you is that you jump to conclusions too soon and are not flexible with your belief systems. You tend to form extremely strong opinions based on your past experiences. Do you think all women are sensitive? Do you think all children are innocent? Exceptions exist everywhere and there always are two sides of a coin. Currently, you just happen to be on the dark side of the moon.

I know it is hard to open up and trust men when you have had your heart-broken a couple of times, but that doesn’t mean you should stop believing that amazing, caring and loving men  exist! In fact, you don’t even have to think all that hard to find such men, just take a closer look back home. You may consider your brother or father or both of them as the epitome of caring and generous men. And if they exist, so can others.

If that’s not enough to convince you, then keep this in mind. If you fail in school, you are not a loser and you can never fail in life if you hold on to hope. So, try not to give up on all men out there just because some men have left a bitter taste in your mouth. After all, you might just miss out on the best relationship you could ever have because you started generalizing all men as the same. So, I would like you to think about it and give your life a chance once again.



Another concerned Man



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